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Easy Road Hard

My parents got divorced when I was 15. My dad took the easy road and left. No conversations just left.

During the break, in one of my workshops, a participant told me, ´´my wife and I are like good friends but I feel she’s not my partner. I love her dearly but I don’t want to make love to her. I prefer to be with someone else and have a real relationship instead of marriage as a friendship.´´

He could just leave and take the easy road, he has the money, the business, the lifestyle and can easily be with someone else easily.

I told him, ´´do you want to take the easy road or the hard road?´´

The easy road is to just leave and leave it all behind. Broken relationships, unfinished conversations.
Sometimes we all have to make these choices in life.

Shall I change my career and dive into the unknown and build a business out of my passion? That’s crazy! It won’t work, and you don´t make a change!

The end result is regret over conversations not had, guilt for not having lived a life true to ourselves, sadness for lost opportunities, and missed life experiences that we truly wanted.

To live life to the fullest you have to be willing to lose all, to then gain everything.

But you want to lose all by making sure you don´t have unfinished business in life. A short-term quick decision is an easy road, but living life to the fullest is taking the hard road with no regrets.

Which journey are you on, the easy or the hard road?

Suited Monk

Raf Adams

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  1. A lesson I am coming to terms with. Thanks for posting.

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