Free Online Life Audit · by Raf Adams

Take your Life Audit

Thinking about a career change, lost your job, feel something needs to change but don’t know where to start, or looking for a deeper meaning in your life? Start here. The Life Audit goes beyond work. It shows where you are on your life journey and how well your inner and outer worlds line up, so you can find your path and grow from the inside out.

Your result shows

  • Suit score: how strong your external self is.
  • Monk score: how aligned you are within.
  • Gap score: how far apart your Suit and Monk are, and its impact on your life.
Where are you right now?
Your age

35 statements, about 3 minutes, free and private, with your personal report by email. For each statement, choose how true it is for you today: 1 = strongly disagree, 5 = strongly agree. Answer for how life is, not how you'd like it to be.

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Tip: keys 1–5 work too

Your result is ready

Tell me where to send your full report, and your personal Gap diagram, profile and seven-area breakdown will open right here.

Your Online Life Audit

Here is your Gap

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Context for your Gap

Your Suit, Monk and Gap scores

Suit score

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High: a strong external self, with real skills, status and armour.
Low: your external self needs more structure and strength.

Monk score

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High: well aligned within and deeply connected with your inner self.
Low: you are not fully connected with your inner self.

Gap score

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High: your Suit and Monk are far apart, and it is having an impact on your life.
Low: your Suit and Monk are close, and you are aligned with yourself.

Across your life

Your Gap in seven life areas

Where to start

Your two widest Gaps

One small step this week:

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Your next step

Turn your result into a plan

Your report shows where the Gap is. A conversation shows why, and what to do next.

Start here

Life Audit Debrief

45-minute private call · USD $297

  • Raf walks through your personal report with you
  • Your two widest Gaps, and what they mean on your Life Journey
  • One clear next step you can act on this month

If you go on to join the 3-month Life Audit, your $297 is credited toward it.

Book your Life Audit Debrief · USD $297

After payment, you'll receive an email with a booking link.

Go deeper

The Life Audit

Three months, 1:1 with Raf · USD $3,500

  • Six private 1:1 sessions over three months
  • A personal Life Journey map showing your Gap, your values and your next step
  • Email support between sessions
See the 3-month Life Audit →

Not sure yet? Book a free 30-minute fit call

1 · Free Online Life Audit→2 · Life Audit Debrief, 45 min→3 · The Life Audit, 3 months

About Raf Adams

Built from a life, not a textbook

Raf Adams is a global thought leader, philosopher, author and executive coach, and the creator of the Suited Monk philosophy. After years of success in the corporate world in China, he felt the Gap himself: a strong Suit and a Monk that had gone quiet.

Since 2008 he has worked with leaders across China, Asia, Europe and Australia, from boardrooms in Shanghai to the KPMG office in Sydney. His books The Suited Monk and Suited Monk Leadership are published in English, Spanish and Chinese.

The Life Audit draws on the Gap model and on research with 196 CEOs worldwide on success, life and leadership by Dr Mike J. Thompson (CEIBS) together with Raf.

What leaders say

Trusted by leaders across Asia and Europe

“Raf conducted a training for my leadership team on the subject ‘leading from within’. The training was delivered with top quality, and was well received by my team.”
Hengming YangPresident, BP China
“Ran a highly effective and insightful training program on leadership - focusing one to confront their own self image and providing tools and learnings along the way… Interactive, progressive and engaging. Thanks Raf.”
Daniel RudolphPresident | Head of Adhesives APAC, Henkel
“Raf is an impressive, intense young man, a coach with his own model of life, which works well and opens new avenues of thinking in a positive way, even for the very experienced, without endangering the personality of his clients: integrity and ethics are part of the service.”
Thierry LaurentVice President, European Chamber of Commerce Shanghai

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Your score is not a reflection of you as a person. The Online Life Audit is a tool for reflection, not a diagnosis or a psychological assessment. It doesn't replace medical or psychological care. If you're struggling with depression, anxiety or a crisis, please reach out to a qualified professional or a local crisis line.

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