Find Happiness And Purpose In Your Life And Career

Fed up?

Feeling unfulfilled at work?

Stuck in a meaningless Job?

Do you want to experience more joy?

I will mentor you and help you find your true path in life so you can be happy and fulfilled every single day.

Hey, I'm Raf, The Suited Monk

When I was 27 I moved as an expat to China to work in an international shipping company. I was considered successful at an early age, but I lacked meaning and purpose in life.

I felt depressed and not living a life true to myself despite my outer success.

In 2008, right before the financial crisis, I got laid off. I decided at that time to live a life true to myself. I changed careers in the financial downturn in China, relocated to another city, started working in a new industry with no network and without speaking Chinese.

Within two years, I transformed my life, found true happiness, my purpose and true path in life. Today, I've built a business out of my passion with offices in Shanghai, London, Suzhou, Brussels and Barcelona.

I've been running seminars and one-on-one coaching ever since, to help others achieve what I have learned. To live an integrated life! To align your internal self (Your Monk) with your external self (Your Suit).

And now... finally... I'm excited to make this info available as a comprehensive online course!

Become a Suited Monk Master

Align your inner self (Monk) with your external self (Suit), so you can be happy internally and successful externally.

  • Internal Happiness (Monk)

    Create an extraordinary life built around your values and purpose

  • A Successful Career (Suit)

    Find your true path and career in life

  • Release negative emotions

    Experience more freedom within

  • Lasting Motivation

    Find meaning and purpose in work and life

  • Live in The Present Moment

    Experience more joy on a daily basis

  • Develop Inner Confidence

    Discover your true passion and gift

Who Will Benefit From This Course?

  • Leaders and managers considering a career change
  • Those who want to find their true path in life
  • Entrepreneurs who want to build a business around their passion
  • Those going through a mid-life crisis or burnout
  • Those who want more meaning and fulfillment in life and work
  • University students who want to find their true path in life
  • Future leaders who want to transform themselves
  • Those who want to increase their internal motivation

What You'll Learn

  • How to cultivate your life's purpose
  • Letting go of negative emotions
  • Stop living according to other's expectations and make decisions true to yourself in your life and career
  • Develop your intuition
  • How to live a life true to your values
  • How to manage and let go of emotional pain
  • A model to help you navigate through life easily
  • How to find your true path in life
  • Self-Awareness of your true talents and gift
  • The best tools and strategies of 10 years from teaching seminars and workshops

What You'll Leave With

  • Clarity about your true path in life
  • Increased happiness in your daily work and life
  • Less stress and more joy on a daily basis
  • A roadmap for how to navigate through life
  • Motivation to take action
  • Mastery for making decisions true to yourself
  • Increased joy on a daily basis
  • Living an authentic life true to yourself instead of others expectations

Your Weekly Lesson Plan

You don't have to do this alone. I will be next to you to help you every step of the way

  • Introduction

    Suited-Monk-Workbook-3D-cover-iconWelcome + we start with a one on one coaching session
    Discover Your Suit and Monk and the GAP in Your Life + Assessment
    (Workbook Page 1-8)

  • Module 1 Self-Awareness

    Awareness Introduction
    Week 1: Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Suit
    Week 2: Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Monk
    Week 3:  Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Emotions
    Wrap Up Awareness Week 1-2-3
    (Workbook page 12-25)

  • Module 2 Developing Your Monk

    Week 4 Values Based Decisions In Life And Career
    Week 5 Part 1: Develop Your Intuition – Flip The Coin
    Week 5 Part 2: Develop Your Intuition – Is This Me?
    Week 6 Cultivate Your Life’s Purpose
    Wrap Up Develop Your Monk
    (Workbook page 36-51)

  • Module 3 Enhance Your Suit

    Week 7 Observe/Accept/Let Go
    Week 8 Reframing Your Perspectives
    Week 9 Managing ExpectationsWrap Up Enhance Your Suit
    (Workbook page 60-74)

  • Module 4 Closing The Gap - Managing Emotions

    Week 10 Emotional Rebalancing

    Week 11 Dealing with Regrets

    Week 12 – Part 1 Forgiveness and Gratitude

    Week 12 – Part 2 Gap in Relationship to Others

    (Workbook page 82-95)

  • Next Steps

    Completion of the Program – Next Steps, become a Suited Monk Master
    Share your learning
    Workbook page (96-106)

Here's What You'll Get When You Join The Online Suited Monk Mentoring Program Today...

  • 12 Week workbook with weekly assignments

    Discover and develop your life’s purpose (this is a digital product)

  • Full Suited Monk GAP Check-Up (including PDF report)

    Assessment which reveals your happiness level

  • The Suited Monk Audiobook

    Create extraordinary life build around your values

  • The Suited Monk EBOOK Finding Your Life's Purpose And True Happiness (from

    Find your true path in life

  • The Life Journey Model

    A life journey roadmap that show the bigger picture of your life and career

  • Monthly One-on-One Mentoring Calls (3)

    You don’t have t do this alone. You and I will work together one on one to achieve your specific mental, emotional and spiritual opportunities and desires – in alignment with your daily goals and career aspiration.

What Other People Say About Suited Monk

Deborah Deborah, General Manager

I recently got appointed to Director of HR for my company and wanted to attend a course that could give me some new insights. I found Raf's course, The Suited Monk and really resonated with the philosophy and curriculum. I personally think that this is the future of the business world; to align business values with personal life purpose to enable leaders and teams to be happier and more effective in all endeavors. Raf provided me with great insights and most importantly, tools that I can now use to help build the foundation of a leadership program that empowers, teaches empathy, mindfulness and positive thinking.

Cathy Cathy , Asia HRD

Very interesting book " the suited monk". Definitely worth for everybody to take some times to read and digest. It will benefits both your daily professional life and personnel life.

Max Max, National Key Account Director

The workshop of suited monk is a fascinating program for personal development. Raf brought a very important topic for every professional to stop and think, what's your life purpose? Think more about inner self (monk) instead of indulging in material world (suit).

Edward Edward, Chief Representative, BP

Raf conducted a training for my leadership team on the subject "leading from within". The training was delivered with top quality, and was well received by my team.

Chuan Chuan, Founder & CEO

Raf's book 'The Suited Monk' is an inspiring book. It has addressed the very complex question of 'happiness' and 'fulfillment' with a simple approach - the Life Journey Model. I have read many different books about live in the present and personal growth, and 'The Suited Monk' is one that make a real impact. I highly appreciated his openness, his energy, and his insight about true happiness.

Mark Mark, Managing Director

I went to the Suited Monk and found it very inspiring and thought provoking. It helped me, with genuine understanding, to view them in a fresh, simple and practical way - offering key insights which I had not seen before. It was a hugely valuable experience for me and I would warmly recommend him to others who are perhaps at a cross-roads in either their work or life.

Dechun Dechun, Managing Director

Raf's workshop on "Leadership from Within" was quite inspiring and refreshing ! It made me ponder on my authentic self, my purpose, and how to let go to enjoy more of work and life.

Keith Keith, Business Manager

Raf's workshops can truly be a life changing event. Anyone from prime ministers to schoolchildren would benefit from experiencing his unique programs. He will literally touch your soul and feed your mind...Incredible

Here's how it works

  1. You start the program with an hour long Skype call with me
  2. We will identify which area you want to work on first (career, emotional, spiritual, mental)
    • Secondly I will teach and mentor you to:
    • I will help you to cultivate real happiness using the GAP model
    • I will help you to align your internal and external self through emotional healing
    • If you are experiencing emotional pains, I will help you release those and cultivate positive emotions
    • If you are in career transition, I will help you to find your purpose in life and work
    • I will help you learn how to make the right decisions in your life and career
    • I'll also answer any questions you have
  3. Each week you will complete 1 practice from the 12 week workbook so you internalize the art of living and how it applies to your journey
  4. During the program we have 2 more calls to help you track your progress and answer any questions you may have

There are only 5 slots.

First come. First serve.

The cost is just USD 297 single payment for getting your life on track (including 3 coaching calls).

If you want to get un-stuck in life, start living a life true to yourself and experience internal freedom, this is exactly what you need.

PS: This program is NOT for everyone. If your first response is “USD 297 including 2 books, an assessment, an audiobook and 3 mentor coaching sessions,''!! I could never afford that!”, then you are not ready to change your life.

Get Your Mentoring Today, Your Life Journey

Is Simply Too Important To Ignore.