Find Happiness, Purpose and your True Path
Live The Life You Deserve!

Fed up?

Feeling unfulfilled at work?

Stuck in a meaningless job?

Are you considering a career change?


Tired of living with fears, doubt and uncertainty?


Yes?! I will mentor you and help you find your true path in life so you can be happy and fulfilled every single day.

Hey, I'm Raf, The Suited Monk

When I was 27 I moved as an expat to China to work in an international shipping company. I was considered successful at an early age, but I lacked meaning and purpose in life.

I felt depressed and not living a life true to myself despite my outer success.

In 2008, right before the financial crisis, I got laid off. I decided at that time to live a life true to myself. I changed careers in the financial downturn in China, relocated to another city, started working in a new industry with no network and without speaking Chinese.

Within two years, I transformed my life, found true happiness, my purpose and true path in life. Today, I've built a business out of my passion with offices in Shanghai, London, Suzhou, Brussels and Barcelona.

I've been running seminars and one-on-one coaching ever since, to help others achieve what I have learned. To live an integrated life! To align your internal self (Your Monk) with your external self (Your Suit).

And now... finally... I have decided to help selected managers and leaders who want to make a transition in life to do the same!

Become a Suited Monk Master

Align your inner self (Monk) with your external self (Suit), so you can be happy internally and successful externally.

  • Internal Happiness (Monk)

    Create an extraordinary life built around your values and purpose and not based on other people’s expectations. We will also work on developing your intuition so you can make decisions true to yourself.

  • A Successful Career (Suit)

    Together we will find your true path and career in life (in a practical way). We will align your career with your purpose. We will also overcome any fears, doubt or uncertainty that you may have in this process to liberate yourself.

  • Release negative emotions, fears and doubts

    Any emotional suffering, regrets, pain or unresolved emotional issues will be released. You will feel lighter and feel more at peace with yourself.

  • Lasting Motivation

    I will help you to build a connection with your inner self so you can feel more motivation and passion from within.

  • Live in The Present Moment

    By finding your purpose aligned with your career, releasing negative emotions and develop your inner self you will experience more joy on a daily basis and be able to live in the present moment

  • Develop Inner Confidence

    Discover your true passion and gift

For who is this? This is for you if...

  • You are a person:
    • who is considering a career change but don't know where to start
    • who wants to find their true path in life
    • going through a mid-life crisis or burnout and you are looking to rebuild your life based on meaning and purpose
    • who want more meaning and fulfillment in life and work

What You'll Learn

  • To cultivate your life's purpose and align it with your career
  • Letting go of negative emotions, guilt, frustration, suffering
  • To live a life true to your values and stop living according to other's expectations
  • Develop your intuition
  • To let go of emotional pain and suffering
  • Overcome fear and limiting beliefs that may hold you back
  • A model to help you navigate through life easily
  • To find your true path in life
  • Self-Awareness of your true talents and gift
  • The best tools and strategies of 10 years from teaching seminars and workshops around the world with executives and leaders from Fortune 500 companies

What You'll Leave With

  • Clarity about your true path in life
  • Increased happiness in your daily work and life
  • Experience less stress and more joy on a daily basis
  • Have a roadmap for how to navigate through life
  • Motivation to take action
  • Mastery for making decisions true to yourself
  • More confidence (real) from within
  • Living an authentic life true to yourself instead of others expectations

Our Weekly Lesson Plan

You don't have to do this alone. I will be next to you to help you every step of the way

  • Introduction

    Suited-Monk-Workbook-3D-cover-iconWelcome Video
    Discover Your Suit and Monk and the GAP in Your Life + Assessment + Video
    (Workbook Page 1-8)

  • Module 1 Self-Awareness

    Awareness Introduction
    Week 1: Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Suit
    Week 2: Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Monk
    Week 3:  Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Emotions
    Wrap Up Awareness Week 1-2-3
    (Workbook page 12-25)

  • Module 2 Developing Your Monk

    Week 4: Video + Workbook Values Based Decisions In Life And Career
    Week 5: Video + Workbook Part 1: Develop Your Intuition – Flip The Coin
    Week 5: Part 2: Develop Your Intuition – Is This Me?
    Week 6: Video + Workbook Cultivate Your Life’s Purpose
    Wrap Up Develop Your Monk
    (Workbook page 36-51)

  • Module 3 Enhance Your Suit

    Week 7: Video + Workbook Observe/Accept/Let Go
    Week 8: Video + Workbook Reframing Your Perspectives
    Week 9: Video + Workbook Managing Expectations

    Wrap Up Enhance Your Suit
    (Workbook page 60-74)

  • Module 4 Closing The Gap - Managing Emotions

    Week 10: Video + Workbook Emotional Rebalancing

    Week 11: Video + Workbook Dealing with Regrets

    Week 12: Video + Workbook – Part 1 Forgiveness and Gratitude

    Week 12 – Part 2 Gap in Relationship to Others

    (Workbook page 82-95)

  • Next Steps

    Completion of the Program – Next Steps, become a Suited Monk Master
    Share your learning
    Workbook page (96-106)


What's included....

  • 3 Months Mentoring Video's With In-Depth Practical Tools To Transform Your Life ($1,997 Value)

    You don’t have to do this alone. You and I will work together one on one to achieve your specific mental, emotional and spiritual opportunities – in alignment with your daily goals and career aspiration. These videos include the most powerful strategies (that work!) that we used in over 10 years of delivering seminars to over 1000’s of people.

  • Full Suited Monk GAP Questionnaire including PDF report ($497 Value)

    An in-depth questionnaire which reveals your happiness level and uncover what’s really within you. This questionnaire was developed by Dr Mike Thompson, professor at CEIBS (China Europe International Business School) and myself.

  • The Suited Monk Audiobook ($47 Value)

    Create extraordinary life build around your values

  • The Suited Monk EBOOK Finding Your Life's Purpose And True Happiness ($15,95 Value)

    Find your true path in life and learn over 15 powerful exercises inside the book to uncover your purpose, talents and true gifts

  • The Life Journey Model (FREE)

    A powerful roadmap that shows the bigger picture of your life and career so you have a roadmap to navigate in your life and career.

  • 12 Week Workbook With Weekly Assignments ($47 Value)

    Discover and develop your life’s purpose. Transformational content to remove your blocks, overcome fears and limiting beliefs to free yourself.

    (this is a digital product)

What Other People Say About Suited Monk

Deborah Deborah, General Manager

I recently got appointed to Director of HR for my company and wanted to attend a course that could give me some new insights. I found Raf's course, The Suited Monk and really resonated with the philosophy and curriculum. I personally think that this is the future of the business world; to align business values with personal life purpose to enable leaders and teams to be happier and more effective in all endeavors. Raf provided me with great insights and most importantly, tools that I can now use to help build the foundation of a leadership program that empowers, teaches empathy, mindfulness and positive thinking.

Cathy Cathy , Asia HRD

Very interesting book " the suited monk". Definitely worth for everybody to take some times to read and digest. It will benefits both your daily professional life and personnel life.

Max Max, National Key Account Director

The workshop of suited monk is a fascinating program for personal development. Raf brought a very important topic for every professional to stop and think, what's your life purpose? Think more about inner self (monk) instead of indulging in material world (suit).

Edward Edward, Chief Representative, BP

Raf conducted a training for my leadership team on the subject "leading from within". The training was delivered with top quality, and was well received by my team.

Chuan Chuan, Founder & CEO

Raf's book 'The Suited Monk' is an inspiring book. It has addressed the very complex question of 'happiness' and 'fulfillment' with a simple approach - the Life Journey Model. I have read many different books about live in the present and personal growth, and 'The Suited Monk' is one that make a real impact. I highly appreciated his openness, his energy, and his insight about true happiness.

Mark Mark, Managing Director

I went to the Suited Monk and found it very inspiring and thought provoking. It helped me, with genuine understanding, to view them in a fresh, simple and practical way - offering key insights which I had not seen before. It was a hugely valuable experience for me and I would warmly recommend him to others who are perhaps at a cross-roads in either their work or life.

Dechun Dechun, Managing Director

Raf's workshop on "Leadership from Within" was quite inspiring and refreshing ! It made me ponder on my authentic self, my purpose, and how to let go to enjoy more of work and life.

Keith Keith, Business Manager

Raf's workshops can truly be a life changing event. Anyone from prime ministers to schoolchildren would benefit from experiencing his unique programs. He will literally touch your soul and feed your mind...Incredible

Even people working for companies such as British Petrol, Carrefour, Henkel, Bayer, Disney, BASF, Barco, GAP, Philips, Comprarcasa, IHG, OCBC Bank and more..... have used  The Suited Monk Model since 2010 to close the GAP on a team and individual level. The Suited Monk Gap model I used is widely recognized, here are some LinkedIn recommendations...

Here's how it works

  1. You start by reading The Suited Monk book to help you identify the Gaps you experience in your life today
  2. Secondly I will teach and mentor you through weekly videos to:
    • I will help you to cultivate real happiness using the GAP model
    • I will help you to align your internal and external self through emotional healing
    • If you are experiencing emotional pains, I will help you release those and cultivate positive emotions
    • If you are in career transition, I will help you to find your purpose in life and work
    • I will help you learn how to make the right decisions in your life and career
    • I'll also answer any questions you have
  3. Each week you will complete the practices and tools from the 12 week workbook so you internalize the art of living and how it applies to your journey

The cost is just USD 297 for getting your life on track (including 3 months weekly videos, a questionnaire to assess your gap, a practical workbook with tools and techniques that serves as a guide to help you close the gap).

If you want to get un-stuck in life, start living a life true to yourself and experience internal freedom, this is exactly what you need.

PS: This program is NOT for everyone. If your first response is “USD 297 including The Suited Monk book, an assessment, an audiobook and weekly videos,''!! I could never afford that!”, then you are not ready to change your life.

Get Your Mentoring Today, Your Life Journey

Is Simply Too Important To Ignore.