Find Happiness, Purpose and be Successful
Live The Life You Deserve!

Fed up?

Feeling unfulfilled at work?

Stuck in a meaningless job?

Are you considering a career change?


Tired of living with fears, doubt and uncertainty?


Yes?! I will mentor you and help you find your true path in life so you can be happy and fulfilled every single day.

Hey, I'm Raf, The Suited Monk

When I was 27 I moved as an expat to China to work in an international shipping company. I was considered successful at an early age, but I lacked meaning and purpose in life.

I felt depressed and not living a life true to myself despite my outer success.

In 2008, right before the financial crisis, I got laid off. I decided at that time to live a life true to myself. I changed careers in the financial downturn in China, relocated to another city, started working in a new industry with no network and without speaking Chinese.

Within two years, I transformed my life, found true happiness, my purpose and true path in life. Today, I've built a business out of my passion with offices in Shanghai, London, Suzhou, Brussels and Barcelona.

I've been running seminars and one-on-one coaching ever since, to help others achieve what I have learned. To live an integrated life! To align your internal self (Your Monk) with your external self (Your Suit).

And now... finally... I have decided for those who want to transform their life to do the same, so you can be happier and start each day excited about your work and daily life!

Become a Suited Monk Master

Align your inner self (Monk) with your external self (Suit), so you can be happy internally and successful externally.

  • Internal Happiness (Monk)

    Create an extraordinary life built around your values and purpose and not based on other people’s expectations. We will also work on developing your intuition so you can make decisions true to yourself.

  • A Successful Career (Suit)

    Together we will find your true path and career in life (in a practical way). We will align your career with your purpose so you can make money doing what you love. We will also overcome any fears, doubt or uncertainty that you may have in this process to liberate yourself.

  • Emotional freedom, release negative emotions, fears and doubts

    Any emotional suffering, regrets, pain or unresolved emotional issues will be released. You will feel lighter and feel more at peace with yourself.

  • Lasting Motivation

    I will help you to build a connection with your inner self so you can feel more motivation and passion from within.

  • Live in The Present Moment

    By finding your purpose aligned with your career, releasing negative emotions and develop your inner self you will experience more joy on a daily basis and be able to live in the present moment

  • Develop Inner Confidence

    Discover your true passion and gift

For who is this? This is for you if...

  • You are a person:
    • who is considering a career change but don't know where to start
    • who needs a fresh injection of motivation, inspiration, perspective and encouragement in life.
    • who wants to find their true path in life
    • who is going through a transition and you are looking to rebuild your life and career based on meaning and purpose
    • who wants to restore your emotional well-being and release stress and negative emotions
    • who wants to develop your sense of self, and a sense of belonging
    • who wants to be a happier person

What You'll Learn

  • To cultivate your life's purpose and align it with your career
  • Letting go of negative emotions, guilt, frustration, suffering
  • To live a life true to your values and stop living according to other's expectations
  • Develop your intuition to make better life decisions
  • To let go of emotional pain and suffering
  • Overcome fear and limiting beliefs that may hold you back
  • A model to help you navigate through life easily
  • To find your true path in life
  • Self-Awareness of your true talents and gift
  • The best tools and strategies of 10 years from teaching seminars and workshops around the world with executives and leaders from Fortune 500 companies

What You'll Leave With

  • Develop a clear sense of your life purpose and core values.
  • Remove bad habits that self-sabotage your happiness.
  • Develop your emotional intelligence & understanding of yourself
  • Make better informed & more results focussed decisions in alignment with yourself.
  • Increased happiness in your daily work and life
  • Experience less stress and more joy on a daily basis
  • Have a roadmap for how to navigate through life
  • Motivation to take action
  • Mastery for making decisions true to yourself
  • More confidence (real) from within
  • Living an authentic life true to yourself instead of others expectations

Living A Life True To Yourself is A Lot Easier Than You Think. Here's Our Weekly Lesson Plan

And you don't have to do this alone. I will be next to you to help you every step of the way

  • Introduction

    Suited-Monk-Workbook-3D-cover-iconWelcome Video
    Discover Yourself: The Suit and Monk and assess the GAP in Your Life + Assessment + Video

    The Life Journey Model Video + Discover If You Are on The Right Path
    (Workbook Page 1-8)

  • Module 1 Self-Awareness

    Awareness Introduction

    Did you know that you may have unconscious messages you’ve learned during your life that might be holding you back from success? Most of us have them and few of us ever learn how to identify and clear them from our lives. In this module, I will guide you through a series of clearing exercises so you’ll learn how to look within and find what you really want and need out of life.

    Lesson 1: Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Suit
    Lesson 2: Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Monk
    Lesson 3:  Video + Workbook Assignment Awareness of your Emotions
    Wrap Up Awareness Week 1-2-3
    (Workbook page 12-25)

  • Module 2 Developing Your Monk

    It really shouldn’t be hard to figure out what drives you in life. But for so many of us, uncovering our passion can take an entire lifetime. In this module, I will help you uncover your real dreams and desires, your inborn skills and strengths, your natural talents, and much more. When you’re done with this section you’ll be left with a sense of confidence and purpose about your path that will guide you to levels of success you never thought possible before.

    Lesson 4: Video + Workbook Values Based Decisions In Life And Career
    Lesson 5: Video + Workbook Part 1: Develop Your Intuition – Flip The Coin
    Lesson 5: Part 2: Develop Your Intuition – Is This Me?
    Lesson 6: Video + Workbook Cultivate Your Life’s Purpose
    Wrap Up Develop Your Monk
    (Workbook page 36-51)

  • Module 3 Enhance Your Suit

    Most people are too hard on themselves and use language such as, ”I am not good enough”, ”’Why does this happen to me”, ”I am not worthy”… The result is that you put yourself down and don’t respect yourself. In this module you will learn to accept yourself and use your mind as a tool instead of letting it put you down. You will learn to master your mind, overcome limiting beliefs and fears so that you can feel more confident and happy from within.

    Lesson 7: Video + Workbook Observe/Accept/Let Go
    Lesson 8: Video + Workbook Reframing Your Perspectives
    Lesson 9: Video + Workbook Managing Expectations

    Wrap Up Enhance Your Suit
    (Workbook page 60-74)

  • Module 4 Closing The Gap - Emotional Freedom

    This module will help you release any emotional blockages that are in your body that are stopping you from being the best version of yourself. This module will empower you with proven (psychological) strategies to aid healing in your emotional body giving you space to liberate negative emotions and feel lighter happier.

    Lesson 10: Video + Workbook Emotional Rebalancing

    Lesson 11: Video + Workbook Dealing with Regrets

    Lesson 12: Video + Workbook – Part 1 Forgiveness and Gratitude

    Lesson 12 – Part 2 Gap in Relationship to Others

    (Workbook page 82-95)

  • Next Steps

    Completion of the Program – Next Steps, become a Suited Monk Master
    Share your learning
    Workbook page (96-106)


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What's included....

  • 3 Months Mentoring Video's With In-Depth Practical Tools To Transform Your Life ($1,997 Value)

    You don’t have to do this alone. You and I will work together one on one to achieve your specific mental, emotional and spiritual opportunities – in alignment with your daily goals and career aspiration. These videos include the most powerful time-tested strategies (that work!) that we used in over 10 years of delivering seminars to over 1000’s of people.

  • Full Suited Monk GAP Questionnaire including PDF report ($497 Value)

    An in-depth questionnaire which reveals your happiness level and uncover what’s really within you. This questionnaire was developed by Dr Mike Thompson, professor at CEIBS (China Europe International Business School) and myself.

  • The Suited Monk Audiobook ($47 Value)

    Create extraordinary life build around your values

  • The Suited Monk EBOOK Finding Your Life's Purpose And True Happiness ($15,95 Value)

    Find your true path in life and learn over 15 powerful exercises inside the book to uncover your purpose, talents and true gifts

  • The Life Journey Model (FREE)

    A powerful roadmap that shows the bigger picture of your life and career so you have a roadmap to navigate in your life and career.

  • 12 Week Workbook - Your Personal Guide With Weekly Assignments ($297 Value)

    Discover and develop your life’s purpose. Transformational content to remove your blocks, overcome fears and limiting beliefs to free yourself.

    (this is a digital product)

What Other People Say About Suited Monk

Deborah Deborah, General Manager

I recently got appointed to Director of HR for my company and wanted to attend a course that could give me some new insights. I found Raf's course, The Suited Monk and really resonated with the philosophy and curriculum. I personally think that this is the future of the business world; to align business values with personal life purpose to enable leaders and teams to be happier and more effective in all endeavors. Raf provided me with great insights and most importantly, tools that I can now use to help build the foundation of a leadership program that empowers, teaches empathy, mindfulness and positive thinking.

Cathy Cathy , Asia HRD

Very interesting book " the suited monk". Definitely worth for everybody to take some times to read and digest. It will benefits both your daily professional life and personnel life.

Max Max, National Key Account Director

The workshop of suited monk is a fascinating program for personal development. Raf brought a very important topic for every professional to stop and think, what's your life purpose? Think more about inner self (monk) instead of indulging in material world (suit).

Edward Edward, Chief Representative, BP

Raf conducted a training for my leadership team on the subject "leading from within". The training was delivered with top quality, and was well received by my team.

Chuan Chuan, Founder & CEO

Raf's book 'The Suited Monk' is an inspiring book. It has addressed the very complex question of 'happiness' and 'fulfillment' with a simple approach - the Life Journey Model. I have read many different books about live in the present and personal growth, and 'The Suited Monk' is one that make a real impact. I highly appreciated his openness, his energy, and his insight about true happiness.

Mark Mark, Managing Director

I went to the Suited Monk and found it very inspiring and thought provoking. It helped me, with genuine understanding, to view them in a fresh, simple and practical way - offering key insights which I had not seen before. It was a hugely valuable experience for me and I would warmly recommend him to others who are perhaps at a cross-roads in either their work or life.

Dechun Dechun, Managing Director

Raf's workshop on "Leadership from Within" was quite inspiring and refreshing ! It made me ponder on my authentic self, my purpose, and how to let go to enjoy more of work and life.

Keith Keith, Business Manager

Raf's workshops can truly be a life changing event. Anyone from prime ministers to schoolchildren would benefit from experiencing his unique programs. He will literally touch your soul and feed your mind...Incredible

For over 10 years, even people working for companies such as British Petrol,  Carrefour, Henkel, Bayer, Disney, BASF, Barco, GAP, Philips, Comprarcasa,  IHG, OCBC Bank and more..... have used  The Suited Monk Model to close the GAP in life and career. The Suited Monk Gap model I used is widely recognized, here are some LinkedIn recommendations...

Here's how it works

  1. You start by reading The Suited Monk book to help you identify the Gaps you experience in your life today
  2. Secondly I will teach and mentor you through weekly videos to:
    • I will help you to cultivate real happiness using the GAP model
    • I will help you to align your internal and external self through emotional healing
    • If you are experiencing emotional pains, I will help you release those and cultivate positive emotions
    • If you are in career transition, I will help you to find your purpose in life and work
    • I will help you learn how to make the right decisions in your life and career
    • I'll also answer any questions you have
  3. Each week you will complete the practices and tools from the 12 week workbook so you internalize the art of living and how it applies to your journey

The cost is just USD 297 for getting your life on track (including 3 months weekly videos, a questionnaire to assess your gap, a practical workbook with tools and techniques that serves as a guide to help you close the gap).

If you want to get un-stuck in life, start living a life true to yourself and experience internal freedom, this is exactly what you need.

PS: This program is NOT for everyone. If your first response is “USD 297 including The Suited Monk book, an assessment, an audiobook and weekly videos,''!! I could never afford that!”, then you are not ready to change your life.

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